The Butterfly Effect: How Happiness Finds You When You Stop Chasing It
Happiness isn’t something you can chase down; it’s more like a butterfly. The harder you pursue it, the more it flutters away. But when you shift your focus elsewhere, it may quietly alight on your shoulder, softly and unexpectedly. Many believe that happiness is a destination—a state to be reached through hard work or by achieving certain goals. They think it lies in acquiring something new—a car, a bigger house, a higher position. But true happiness isn’t about what you have; it’s about who you are. Happiness is hidden in life’s small moments—in the stillness of a quiet morning, the smile of a loved one, or the warmth of the sun on your skin. It reveals itself in those moments when you lose yourself completely, absorbed in something or someone else. When you stop wondering if you’re happy, that’s when happiness finds you naturally. Happiness also comes from acceptance. It’s about recognising that life isn’t perfect, that it has its ups and downs, its joys and sorrows. If you can acce